Archive for December, 2008

My Travel Plans

Friday, December 19th, 2008

This holiday season I’m doing a bit of traveling.  As usual, I’m making my way to Vegas to visit my grandparents.  There I’ll do a bit of shopping for presents and enjoy spending time with my cousins.  The temperature in Vegas right now is 36 Degrees so I’m not sure how excited I am for that, but nonetheless it will be nice to get out of L.A. for a couple days.

I get back from Vegas just in time to spend christmas eve in beautiful California.  I just recently got a christmas tree and finished decorating my house, it’s the first time i’ve gone by myself to get a tree and had my own place to decorate. Pretty cool if you ask me ;)

Shortly after christmas I’ll be hopping on a plane, en route to Cabo San Lucas. Wil and I will be making a pit-stop in Guadalajara for Breakfast on the way there which is going to be a lot of fun.  I’ve never been to Guadalajara so the 4 hour layover will surely be filled with exciting experiences.  Then, I hop back on the plane for La Paz, Mexico.  La Paz is a very small, quaint town with an airport, tequila bars and very cool homes you can explore.

On our 1 hour drive south to Cabo San Lucas, we’ll be making another pit-stop at to pay a visit to our crazy friends, Cuco and Pilar.  Cuco, a car-tire sandal maker (called Huaraches), is quite a character and Pilar is quiet but very sweet and insightful.  Last year they had puppies living on their ranch and they were just adorable.  For pictures from the last trip, check out Wil Fernandez’ website here.  Pilar is the woman on the far right sitting in the Cacti. I really had an amazing time last year in mexico, it doesn’t hurt that the weather is beautiful this time of year and I’m always in good company.

A majority of our trip will be spent in Cabo, but we plan on visiting a town just north of Cabo called Todos Santos. The town is known for its artsy feel and has one of the best italian restaurants.  Another stop on our Tour de Baja is La Candelaria.  La Candelaria is a well-hidden, well-preserved village with a population of around 80.  La Candelaria is full of suprises; dry river beds with wild dogs, steep, curvy and dusty roads, palm tree farms and best of all- Lorena.   Lorena H. is an American woman from Portland who (for reasons unknown) moved to Mexico, married and started teaching pottery in the small village. Lorena grows all of her own fruits and vegetables while her husband makes roofs from palm frawns (and really enjoys a good tequila).

The weather in Cabo right now is 85 degrees and clear skies.  I could not be more excited.  I’ll be doing a lot of travel writing and relaxing… not to mention getting a beautiful tan!

Enjoy the Holidays and Happy New Year!

Mia Taylor on Britney Spears- “For The Record”

Saturday, December 6th, 2008

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In a feeble attempt to reacquire the hearts of otherwise comotose Brit fans, Miss Britney Spears opted to film a confessional expose on the inexcapable crises we’ve all had the pleasure of witnessing over the last couple years. Whether by choice or not, tabloids, local news channels and radio have made it nearly impossible to avoid the dramatic intricasies of Britney’s “personal life challenges.”

From artificial English accents to head-shaving, Provigil to fishnets, rehab to custody battles and paparazi courtships to divorce, we’ve just about witnessed what we can only hope to be the worst of Britney’s war against pop-ism.

The MTV sponsored “documentary” followed Britney Spears for three months in 2008, with interviews about her motives, feelings and why she’s acted so outrageously. She seemed to brush over details and focus on putting on a facade that might win the hearts (and album sales) of those that have lost faith in her character. Who is Britney anyways?

The documentary, promoted as a “tell-all documentary” following the life of Britney for three months, consisted of dance rehearsals, makeup sessions, shopping sprees and “heartfelt” interviews with the director.  She’s got it rough, eh?  As was advertized, we were all hoping for a documentary explaining the cause of Britney’s woeful existence within the last few years.

For The Record took a stab at baring and sharing all, yet answered very few of the questions we’ve all been asking.

Why is she making this documentary?
“I wanted to make this film because I started to feel like I wasn’t being seen in the light that I wanted to be seen in. I’m not sure what light that is exactly. This is an opportunity to set the record straight and talk about what I’ve been through and where I’m headed,” Britney said.

Why the relationships with Paparazi, Adnan? Why the constant alterations to her identity? Why the prolonged English accent that was claimed to be genuine? Why the spontaneous vegas wedding to a childhood friend? Why didn’t she care about her children? Why? Why? and more Whys.

What did we learn?

  • That Brit has two new fragrances coming out this December
  • Can still lipsync, gets all of her clothes for free and wants her dance routine to look like Janet’s. Great.
  • Britney breast fed; a little sidenote to divert the interviewers questions
  • She thinks she’s smart (and that everyone shaves their heads)
  • Her breakup with Justin sparked the downward spiral ( 6 years ago)
  • She’s lost and can’t take responsibility for her actions (Blame it on the break-up, Brit)

Britney came accross as lost and trapped within the confines of fame but the documentary didn’t even succeed in making us feel bad for her trials and tribulations…why? Because it didn’t tell us anything about them, except that her predictably erratic behavior was just a “rebellious” phase.

All in all, MTV produced a great infomercial for Britney’s new album entitled Circus and to be quite frank, I will continue to believe her life really is one.

The End.  Or is it…

A Review of The Wentworths by Katie Arnoldi

Monday, December 1st, 2008

A Disease Called Desire.

Growing up in Beverly Hills isn’t exactly my idea of a culture-rich adolescence and I guess that is why people are shocked when I admit that for thirteen years I too was trapped in the Beverly Hills Triangle, the sister Triangle known for swallowing the souls of otherwise productive members of society.

Beverly Hills can consume you if you let it, and it will, trust me.  It did for the Wentworths; Becky, Judith, Gus and more shockingly- Conrad and it is on a constant prowl for others. It will consume the very core of your human development and cause great delusions of superfluous and (seemingly) necessary desire. Unbeknownst to the victim’s conscious mind, these delusions can cause the misconception that things will fill voids and mend vulnerabilities. Each of the characters in The Wentworths’ subconscious minds seeks to fill voids by obsessing about their own desires.

The Wentworths, by Katie Arnoldi, is a novel of desire that goes far beyond the daily recommended dose.  The Wentworths’ desire runs their lives into the ground. Conrad’s desire for wealth and women, Judith’s yearning for perfection, and in contrast, Paul’s desire for normality.

In order for her to create the only reality she can exist in, Judith Wentworth must control anything and everything within her reach. Like most aging, posh and menopausal women of the Beverly Hills region, perfection is key. Her existence is based around the need for everything to be flawless.

Judith Wentworth spends more time looking in the mirror than she does communicating with the world around her. She analyzes, she studies, she improves (Arnoldi 14). In order to escape the fact that her picture-perfect family is not so picture perfect, Judith focuses on her appearance and leaves everything else on the backburner.

Inevitably so, this mindset creates dissonance between what is reality and what we create to be our own reality. In comparison, the media promotes this lifestyle by airing shows like The Hills and The Real Housewives of the O.C. The women in these shows are far more concerned with their fabricated reality than reality itself.

Contrary to popular belief, women are not the only ones affected by the Beverly Hills Triangle. It is widely known that cultures like those seen in Bel-Air and Beverly Hills foster the growth of shallow, distracted and pretentious individuals; even in men. Conrad Wentworth is the perfect specimen.

Conrad has a constant desire to fill the shoes that his mother never fit in to, but instead of finding a woman that could do so, he found young girls and sexually promiscuous women that all had a striking resemblance to Judith.  In order to get the amount of attention he needed, he got involved with girls that were unstable and overly attentive to him. His need for this attention ends up getting him in deep. 6 feet deep.

Conrad will go to great lengths for wealth. This includes knowingly defending guilty rapists and murderers because they have the money to pay him. Conrad is a real famous attorney. Thirteen year-old accuses a rap star of rape?  Conrad can probably get him off. It’s gonna cost, but that’s what money’s for.  (Arnoldi 16) The lifestyle he lives is that of a morally bankrupt individual.

In contrast to the moral bankruptcy, feeble attempts at perfect and hunger for affluence, Paul Jones is the example of an individual not yet corrupted by the Beverly Hills Triangle of doom. He desires in a healthy way, and desires healthy things.

Throughout the novel, Paul plays the role of the moral rock. Steady and logical (and obviously undamaged), he becomes the voice of reason. Paul recognizes that the realities of life would make Becky angry so he deals with them himself.  An example of this is when he finds, hidden in the mattress, things any normal boy might hide.

Paul’s desires consist of those things any unaffected individual might desire; a dog, a happy family and a healthy wife who has long given up the habit of popping sleeping pills to escape.

It is hard to believe that any one individual could remain untouched by such surroundings, but it is not an unreasonable idea.  Growing up and living in Beverly Hills really is a triangle similar to the Bermuda Triangle; before you know it, you have been consumed and it is a hard comeback to achieve.

The Wentworth’s constant desire is a disease that affects many. I have seen it first hand and could have easily fallen into the triangle.  With a lot of introspection and world-traveling,  I was able to pull myself out before it became too late. Reading The Wentworths by Katie Arnoldi was as close to reading the biography of life-long neighbors, only this time it was easier to shut the book and walk away.  The real housewives of the O.C. really have nothing on The Wentworths; and to be honest, they should be proud.

Travel Writing, School and Whatnot

Monday, December 1st, 2008

“No venture ever succeeds alone, but is always reinforced and strengthened by the contributions of many people…”- Louise Purwin Zobel, 1980

“The true professon of a man is finding his way to himself” -Herman Hesse

I just received a book from Amazon.com today that I think is going to help set me on the right track for a really great travel writing experience.  The book is called The Travel Writer’s Handbook. How to write- and sell- your own travel experiences. Written by the late Louise Purwin Zobel, I was extremely suprised to see that the book was shipped to me by her daughter, Jan.  I have heard a lot of really good things about this book and look forward to expanding my knowledge on Travel Writing.  I’ll probably start reading it this evening.

On another note, I’ve been preparing for finals to take over my life and I have to say, I’m not really excited about it.  Finals always seem to creep up on me.  I am, however, looking forward to writing and traveling during the holidays. I’ve finished decorating my home and now all I’m missing is the tree ( I even have a With Sinatra on Christmas CD).

I’ve spent the entire day at home today, which has felt really nice.  Both of my roommates were gone and I read my new book, worked on my class schedule for next semester, wrote some copy for the websites, cleaned and decorated.  It’s been nice having the place to myself, and more than ever I’ve been finding the solitude quite comforting.  It has given me the time and space to be introspective, proactive and productive.

On another note, I found a new hiking trail just across the street.  I’d seen it before but never knew where it went. I’ll probably scope it out this week.

I really enjoy the Winter season out here, it’s a nice break from the city. Sometimes…well, a lot of times, Los Angeles gets to be a bit overwhelming. I mean, the traffic is incredible- I still can’t figure out why they aren’t improving the Public Transportation system- and Santa Monica is filthy.  Aside from the fires, there’s not a lot that goes on out here.  Sometimes thats a good thing, but sometimes I wish I could access the city a bit easier.  Can’t have your cake and eat it too though, Right? Or is it….The Grass is always greener…Anyways, since it’s not 118 Degrees out here, it’s pretty enjoyable.  The days are perfect and the nights just chilly enough for a comfy, sherpa-lined hoodie.

Until next time,

Mia